Personal Stories
Here are some of our thoughts about our infertility journey: 
Read last year's entries here.
Just because you are young, doesn't mean you'll get pregnant. Just because IVF worked the first time, doesn't mean it will be easy the next time. Just because you have insurance coverage, doesn't mean IVF won't be expensive.
Age 28 started trying to get pregnant. Got pregnant through our 1st IVF at age 29. Age 31 started trying for our 2nd child. 3 clomid cycles. 1 FET with leftover embryos from our 1st IVF. 4 fresh IVF. The last cycle finally worked! -- Kate, Arlington, VA
Our Pathway to Parenthood: How God has blessed our experience with Infertility, My Septate Uterus, and His Morphed Sperm
My husband and I have been trying to conceive since July 2010. He is a testicular cancer survivor, and I have had two surgeries to remedy my uterine septum and Endometriosis. We've had one chemical pregnancy from IUI and are about to begin IVF. -- Courtney, Calera, AL
Six Years and Counting
My husband and I are on a seemingly never-ending journey to parenthood as we just passed the 6 year mark. We have done 3 IUIs, 6 IVFs, and experienced 5 devastating miscarriages. We are now trying to pursue gestational surrogacy. -- Whitney, VA
The Memoir of a Mom at Last
Sharon struggled to become a Mom, dealing with the uncertain world of infertility including three In Vitro Fertilizations, Tubal Pregnancy, and the Loss of a Pregnancy with twin boys at 19 weeks. -- Sharon, DE
Donor Egg Journey
I thought I would bring home a baby. Instead I tried IVF 5 times and failed. Through RESOLVE I found a donor egg support group and decided to use a donor egg. Then I wrote a book Grade A Baby Eggs to share my story. http://gradeababyeggs.com -- Victoria, NY
Even if there is nothing wrong with you, it does not mean you will get pregnant.
Before we were married my husband had a vascetomy. After we married he had it reversed but it didn't work, a year later. Now we're going to IVF after great debate about that or adoption. We'll try it a few times in a couple of weeks and hope for the best. -- Lisa, MO
The rainbow after the storm.
It took us six years to have a baby. After many rounds of shots and artificial inseminations and 3 miscarraiges we were finally blessed with a baby boy. I look at him everyday (he is 4) and still can not believe that he is here. Miracles happen everyday!!! -- Anonymous, VA
It's been a long journey, full of many ups and downs: some of the highest highs and lowest lows of my life.
We have been trying to start a family for over 6 years. We have done several IUI's and 4 failed IVF cycles. Our last IVF cycle was positive! Lost our twins at 7 weeks. In the adoption world for a year and adopting our son in June! -- Christa, WI
Unexplained infertility and eventual acceptance.
After three years of TTC and extensive testing and two IUIs without a pregnancy, we tried IVF. I got a positive beta test for the first time, only to have my numbers drop two days later. We have now accepted a childfree life. They never did find a cause. -- Alison, CT
The waiting continues
I found out when I was just 19 years old that I had PCOS. It was devastating to know i might not be able to bear a child. My now husband and I have been together since we were 15 and little did we know the path to become parents would be so hard. -- April, OH
The Infertility Book I Wanted to Find
Back in 2008 depression and tears were constant. I searched for infertility memoirs similar to my own story but found little. I felt all alone. I decided to write my own story, hoping to help others. Website: www.lostinaseaofmothers.com. -- Catherine, MD
Failure is not part of my vocabulary: Our Struggle with infertility after 2 failed IVF's
My husband and I sought testing for infertility 2 years ago after 8 years of "trying on our own". We have now had two unsuccessful IVF cycles which led to us losing our home. It's just not in me to give up or accept failure. We will fight on. -- Alison, WI
Always dreaming of baby...
Been trying for 5 years, Clomid for 6 months. Told I have PCOS, then told I do not. No money for expensive treatment. Does that make me not worthy of becoming a mommy. Will never give up hope. -- Amy, MI
Four years of infertility heartache followed by an IVF miracle...
Our four years of infertility were overwhelming at times. So many failed treatments and three miscarriages nearly broke me. But we have been so blessed that our most recent round of IVF worked and we are expecting a miracle baby girl due in July 2012. -- Lynn, NH
I joked with my mother and said "You lied to me about where babies come from. They don't come from sex... they come from a petri dish!!!"
I am 30 years old and I have PCOS and endo. We conceived our son on the FET after two failed IVFs. For me pregnancy was a 9 month remission from infertility. It hurts, but humor helps. Try not to let the anger and bitterness consume you. -- Olivia, NY
Against All Odds
My husband and I knew, from the beginning of our relationship, that we wanted children. We struggled for 8 years after our wedding, undergoing surgeries, procedures, pills, injectibles, and countless appointments to no avail. We were told we would never get pregnant without IVF.I have PCOS and never ovulated on my own.We took charge of our health, eating clean and exercising.Two cycles of accupuncture later, we got our first ever bfp.I am 38 wks pregnant. -- Erin, NY
A Little About Me
I'm 26 and suffer infertility from PCOS, I live in New Mexico where I can't recieve any treatment without going bankrupt... when I was 15 I met the man who I knew I'd spend my life with. It kills me each day I cant give him a child.. no help from our state. -- Melanie, NM
Infertility knows no age,time, color, religion,or sex. Infertility is.
I was diagnosed with PCOS at 20. We have been trying for over a year now. On metformin,hoping to move to Clomid soon.I nsurance stopped covering IF treatments shortly after it kicked in. IF funds are low,and treatments high. My worst fear is a childless life. -- Lauren, AR
No treatment coverage despite living in Illinois and having two medical conditions at the root of my infertility.
I had a miscarriage in May 2011 after months of trying. After the miscarriage I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and PCOS. Despite living in IL I have no fertility treatment coverage! No luck after 2 years of trying. -- Caroline, IL
Tragedy to Triumph: Our path to parenthood after "worst-case-scenario" becomes real life; the creation of Robert William Foundation and the start of a new life. www.RobertWilliamFoundation.org
At 16 1/2 weeks pregnant a one-in-a-million medical emergency caused me to lost my unborn son and fertility. Now we are navigating through IVF and surrogacy to finally start our family. We are determined to help others fight this disease! -- Jamie, NC
The infertility treatment roller coaster is over
My husband and I have been on the infertility journey for almost four years. We had a failed IVF in November. It was devastating and we are still healing from it. We are working on giving it over to God, and focus on adoption. -- Amanda, KY
10 years later and still hoping
My husband and I have been trying for over 10 years. Over the past 10 years we have been taking adavatage of, gave up, and was eventually introduced to a new Doctor who seems to be determined to find the problem and solution. -- Lisa, NY
Are we making ourselves sick?
I have been trying to conceive for just under a year and have not had any success. Both my husband and I are perfectly healthy. Earlier last week I watched the programme Plastic Planet: https://vimeo.com/32381655 I now wonder are we making us sick?-- Ulrike, London, England
XXY Boy Meets Blocked Tubes Girl - Let the baby making commence.
Hubby and I began trying for a baby in May of 2008. After 15 months of failure, we sought help. With a diagnosis that we are both infertile we underwent IVF. We were blessed to be successful on our first try and have a 1 y/o son. -- Genevieve, PA
Don't Ignore Infertility - Talk About It
My husband and I have spent nearly 10 years dealing with infertility issues. We conceived our son 7 years ago with the help of ovulation stimulation and intra-uterine insemination. We have been trying to conceive a second child since then. -- Charlene, ID
Don't give up
After 6.5 years of infertility, multiple tries at IVF, surgeries, and a pregnancy loss of our dear Harrison at 23 weeks I still can not believe that I am finally a mom via a wonderful gestational carrier. Please do not give up!!! -- Jennifer, CA
Published Book to Raise Awareness!
After years of trying for a baby, multiple surgeries and procedures, one crushing loss, we finally had our beautiful son in our arms...and I had a published book in the works to RAISE AWARENESS of this silent burden that so many carry alone. -- Heather, TN
Our story..by the numbers
3 clinics, in 2 states, over 2 years. 2 medicated cycles, 5 IUIs, and 4 IVF transfers (2 fresh, 2 frozen). Of 42 embryos, 30 arrested within 5 days and 12 could be transferred. We transferred 8, lost 7, but we hold 1 PERFECT BABY BOY every night! -- Kimberly, NJ
The never-ending journey to parenthood.
From PCOS to unexplained infertility. From exploratory surgery to blocked Fallopian tubes. From treatment to treatment and failure to failure. From trying to quitting. From Infertility to Adoption. Someday we'll be parents. When will someday turn to NOW! -- Jamie, CA
Running in Place... And getting nowhere fast.
My husband and I have been trying for 5 years. We want to be parents so bad! Our RE has told us that he thinks we should move on to IVF. Financially, this just is not an option for us. Infertility gets harder everyday to live with. -- Sabrina, IN
The dream doesn't end because of infertility.
We tried for a year to get pregnant and then found out I have Premature Ovarian Failure. IVF was an option with a donor egg. We didn't feel that was right for us. We adopted our son from Guatemala at 10 months of age. He is a dream come true. -- Jessica, FL
Trying to conceive the hard way
It took us a year and a half to get pregnant with Ethan. We were lucky enough to get pregnant after our second IUI. This time around we have done 4 IUI's with no luck. We are are deciding now if we should continue with IUI or move on to IVF. -- Jessica, VA
There's Something in the Water at a Military Post
Being stationed at an Army post doesn't ease my anxieties of having infertility issues (due to PCOS and Endo). Women seem to stay in a constant state of pregnancy here. I am determined to not let PCOS get the best of me! After all, I'm ARMY STRONG! -- Julia, KS
Still hopeful, and giving up no time soon!
My husband and I have been trying to conceive since 2009. In 2008, six months after we were married, I was diagnosed with pulmonary embolism due to the drug Yaz. I am also homozygous for a gene mutation called MTHFR. We have had two miscarriages since. -- Sharon, OR
The Hope Keeps You Going...
Started TTC at age 26. Three years, 3 rounds of Clomid, 4 double IUIs, 2 fresh IVFs, and one devastating miscarriage later, we're still at it..with a FET cycle coming up soon. The hope never goes away! -- Erin, IL
Don't ignore infertility - what you can do to help (NIAW 2012)
TTC 18 months with PCOS, progesterone deficiency and estrogen deficiency. Two miscarriages and four IUIs later, we now have triplets. -- Jenny, NC
Be Aggressive!
Successful IVF on our first try, after a year but more importantly, because we didn't wait a long time, and didn't try too many procedures. We went straight to IVF after my husband was diagnosed with a low sperm count. I'm glad we didn't wait -- Hillary, NJ
5 Years in the Making
My wife and I have struggled with infertility since we got married just over 5 years ago. We went through several treatments and had two ectopic pregnancies. On our first IVF cycle, we were blessed with triplet boys. -- Aaron, MI
We are the passengers not the drivers of this challenging journey- learning to let go and trust in God's plan.
Started TTC April 2009. 3 failed IUI's. 1st round IVF Nov 2011, 1st positive ever, sadly ending in ectopic pregnancy. D&C and methotrexate in Dec 2011. 2nd round IVF march 2012, our miracle is due 12/2/12. God is good and we are trusting in his plan! -- Niki, MI
Endometriosis and secondary infertility
My husband and I never dreamed we would ever face something so devastating. We had a beautiful baby girl after 7 months of TTC and planned on 1 more child. We have done 3 failed IUI's, 4 failed IVF's, 2 failed donor IVF's and still no baby. -- Molly, FL
My infertility journey
We thought we would just get pregnant without any problems. Boy were we wrong. I think the hardest thing was months seeing your monthly visitor and being so frustrated. -- Lisa, PA
starting the journey again....
We tried for almost 2 years to get pregnant, I've been diagnosed with pcos and unexplained infertility. All the procedures we tried didn't work even though our RE said the medications were doing their job, had to stop due to money, but going to try again. -- LeAnn, MO
Don't Do It Alone - Speak Up About Infertility
Infertility has been the most painful experience of my life. But, educating myself, advocating for myself, and building a community of support have helped us SURVIVE our journey, and make informed decisions. Sharing your story will make a difference. -- Jennifer, NY
Traveled down a road that hit a dead end and decided to try another road and found a pot of gold.
For three years my husband and I suffered from infertility we went through 8 IUI's 3 IVF and had steller embryos but they never implanted. After the 3rd IVF we decided to adopt. This was the best decision we could have ever made. -- Maria, CT
God Love Faith Heart
8 yrs of a Dr who ignored my concerns about endometriosis to one that saved my life, 2 surgeries, depression,and a miscarriage. Im alive in love and have faith that God will help us concieve and deliver a healthy very loved baby. -- Portia, NY
RESOLVE supported us on every part of our family building journey!
Thankful for RESOLVE support through 2 failed iui's, 4 failed ivfs followed by 4 "unassisted" pregnancies and 3 miscarriages. I've learned you cannot control everything, and that it is sheer luck we have our beautiful daughter. -- Chika, IL
No one told me about infertility
This video I made about my infertility says it all. It's unexplained, which makes it so hard. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fkW-4mXJX6A&feature=youtube_gdata_player -- Anne-Marie, FL
That Which Does Not Kill Us Makes Us Stronger!
We have been TTC #1 since 09' I have stage 4 endometriosis, PCOS & a hydrosalpinx (1 ovary & 1 fallopian tube as well) I have had 4 surgeries (soon to be 5) and 2 failed IVF attempts. We keep pushing to make our dreams come true! - Christina, MI
Still Waiting For Our 2nd Miracle
In 2008, I had a healthy baby boy after HELLP. In 2010, I had a myomectomy that was supposed to help prevent issues getting pregnant with #2. In 2011, I had 2 miscarriages. In 2012, I had a hysteroscopy & am on my 2nd round of Clomid. -- Anonymous, IN
My husband of 3 years and I started trying immediatly after we were married. When I was 16 and diagnosed with endometriosis, I never knew the toll this would take on my life 10 years later, and that was only the start of my bumpy ride!
I was 16 when I had my first laparoscopy and was diagnosed with Endometriosis.7 years later, I had my second operation and was diagnosed with PCOS. November 2010 they found Cervical Pre-cancer and in January 2011 I had a LEEP and my 3rd operation. - Brittni, OH
Keeping up with the Jones'
I have PCOS. I have had it since I was 14, but was diagnosed at 22. We have been trying just over 3 yrs and are now in the process of Clomid and injectables. I would love to see more awareness and information for others like me. -- Kristen, TN
My infertility story is 10 years and counting
My story goes back to Sept. 2002, the month and year I married my first husband. We wanted to start a family right away, but God had other plans. He ended up dying of Cancer a year later. I remarried in 2005, and have been trying to get pregnant since. - anonymous, IL
Keep all your options open!!!
My husband and I started trying for a family on our honeymoon. I was 35. We went through several IUIs, 2 miscarriages, 2 IVF's, where the second one I had a rare complication that almost ended my life. After, we went adoption route and have our son. - Lynn, NJ
Young and discovered I couldn't have children naturally is the most devastating things one can go through.
I'm 35 and 4 yrs ago I found out I have stage 4 endometriosis and that my tubes were completely closed. After going to a fertility dr. I discovered that I'd have to do IVF as I have less than 1% chance of conceiving naturally. I still haven't decided. - Bridget, AZ
An early Christmas Present that will never be unwrapped
On December 3rd, I became a MOM, my DREAM, for 18 exciting days. Although no pain or complications, it ENDED! The cruel, ectopic pregnancy resulted in emergency surgery on the 21st, taking my only working tube. Creating & planting a new dream, IVF. - Nichole, CA
9 years-numerous run arounds- excruciating pain
I started my journey at 21. No one took me seriously. Now at 30; I now know I have no fallopian tubes and only half of 1 ovary. Mysterious internal combustion....? Ovarian failure. I am sterile. I can not have any biological children of my own. - Jessica, IA
I am 30 and still ttc!
I married young to my high school sweetheart. We after 5yrs of marriage started trying. We found that I have an imbalance and hubby has low count and mobility; IUI is your only way to a family. It is expensive. Hope to do our 1st in June or July. - Josie, AK
Still on the path, even after success. For some of us, IF doesn't have a neat end.
After 7 IUIs, 1 miscarriage and 1 long, tearful journey of 5 years, we finally did IVF/ICSI and as a result, our beautiful son was born. Now, in the face of starting at square one again older and in debt, our odds of adding to the family are even less. - Kelli, CA
Our Journey to Hell & back & Hell again
Four years ago I was rushed to the ER with unexplained bleeding in 4 hours I had lost nearly half of my blood. After a year of being sent to Dr after Dr I was finally sent to RE 4 IVFs later we are still childless and 3 angels in heaven. - Ami, IL
Infertility can destroy the strongest of marriages
Six years ago, I was diagnosed with an "ovulation disorder." My HS sweetheart & husband of 2 years recently decided IF wasn't what he wanted and left me. I'm battling IF & pursuing treatment without a man by my side. - Sarah, CA
Silly sorry swimmers
Apparently my husband has poor little guys (the few million there are) are mishapen and poor swimmers. We got our daughter with no treatment but we have been trying since her birth 7 years ago and have had two failed IUIs. - Angie, KS
The journey...
My husband and I have been try for baby #1 for 7 years. I was diagnosed with pcos at the age of 14. I do not ovulate on my own. We have had many test done. So many ups and downs it's a rollercoster of emotions! I will beat infertility , it won't beat me! - Teresa, MN
That did what??
When I was 15 my appendix ruptured and caused massive scarring and the closure of my fallopian tubes. We TTC for 4 years before finding out that I couldn't conceive naturally. IVF is insanely expensive and not covered by my insurance. - Rachel, TX
Recipe for a Family: 5 Preemies, 4 IVF Docs, 3 Surrogates, 2 Ukrainian Toddlers, and the Baby Next Door
We have 6 kids after many losses! One son, born at 27wks, two sons adopted from Ukraine, one daughter through domestic adoption and twin girls through IVF/Surrogacy. Read our heartwarming story: http://recipeforafamily.wordpress.com/my-story-my-recipe/ - Cindy, MN
Donor Egg Success Story
After 2 (expensive) years of multiple IUIs, IVF, one donor egg attempt resulting in ectopic pregnancy, we gave it one last shot(!) with another donor egg. After all we had been through it's still hard to believe we now have a beautiful baby boy! - Michele, TX
Not giving up.
We have been trying with ART for the past year and 6 years on our own before that. We waiting to hear the result of our 3rd IVF tomorrow. I never imagined it would be this hard, but if I didn't think it would be worth it I would have given up long ago. - Emily, UT
It's all part of the story...and the story isn't over. Not by a long shot...
Six months into trying for our baby in 2010 I was diangosed with PCOS out of no where. I had already had one loss in 2008. In 2011 we had two losses. PCOS, the losses, our struggles..is all just part of the story. Not giving up!! -- Kristina, CA
Desperately seeking pregnancy
My husband and I have been TTC for 3 years. We tried on our own for 1 1/2 years, I got pregnant and miscarried. We just started fertility treatments I was found to have ovarian dysfunction. I'm on my 3rd cycle of clomid and hoping for the best! - Jamie, WI
It wasn't just a line...all it takes is one...
Started TTC at age 31. I felt something was off right away, but couldn't get my Dr. to listen. Had to wait the mandatory year+ to see a specialist. Premature ovarian failure. Dr. said possibly a donor egg. We tried IVF (with my egg!) and conceived the first time with the ONE (and only) embryo that we had. She is now the most beautiful 4 month old. All expenses were out of pocket. Thankfully it worked - we'd never be able to afford another try. -- Aimee, VA
Still waiting for our child
We started TTC in 2007. After 3 years of no success, we were diagnosed with unexplained Infertility. We have done 7 IUI's (4 w/ Femara), and 3 cycles w/ Femara only. Now, we are pursuing adoption and waiting to be matched! - Leesha, MO
7 Years and counting
I'm 29 and he is 31. We started trying in 2004, and have had 3 miscarriages. I have Stage IV Endometriosis. About to do IUI # 3 in May, this may be our last IUI attempt before we are asked to look at IVF. IVF isn't covered by my insurance. - Crystal, TX
On our way to our dream baby, one day at a time
After 2 years of naturally TTC, we sought out help from an RE. I was diagnosed with PCOS and my husband has a very low sperm count. We will begin IVF in the summer!! - Kristen
Hi my name is Blanca
I have PCOS and I don't ovulate that's why I have been suffering with infertility for 22 years and I never been pregnant. I try diferent treatments but nothing help, and my doctor told me to try IVF but its so expensive. My age won't help now I'm 44 years and I don't have the money to try with IVF. - Blanca, CA
Tears and Hope
Husband was diagnosed w/ low sperm count. Started off with IVF. Everything should have worked perfectly, but my cycle was canceled. I ended up in the hospital with OHSS. Because of this I can no longer do IVF. 5 IUIs later we are pregnant w/ donor sperm! - Kate, WI
INFERTILITY Road to Hell and Back
Memoir of my struggle with Infertility, a failed Adoption, a hate for Abortions, and a Marriage that fell apart. http://www.road-to-hell-and-back.com/ - Azelene, WA
The Carrot Seed: Truths from the other side of infertility
My journey through infertility spanned eastern, western & alternative medicines. After 2 failed IVF cycles, I conceived naturally - I'm now 7 weeks from my due date. To honor NIAW, to tell my story & offer hope, I launched www.thecarrotseed.net. - Kris, MT
five miscarriages later
We've had 5 miscarriages over the course of 5 years mainly attributed to chromosomal issues and after the last one, we finally decided it was time for IVF with CCS. we just recently completed our 2nd IVF fresh cycle and just took an hpt - it was positive! - Sam, CA
Trying for 5 years... Now fundraising for IVF and so hopefull!
Please read our story and any help or fund raising suggestions are greatly appreciated ! Love, mike and mindy http://www.gofundme.com/BabyorBust2012 - Mindy, PA
Never give up!!!
I was born infertile. Never dated at 16 because I looked 12. I have had the loss of never having a baby with me my hole life. I am now at the age of 39 going to be in a research study to pump natural hormones into me so I can have a baby. Wish me luck!! - Gabrielle, NJ
Third time's a charm...at least we hope so!
Met my husband when I was 35. Married at 37. Tried on our own for 6 months, clomid for 7, then met with RE and found I have one blocked tube. 3 IUIs, 3 IVFs,2nd IVF m/c and we are now in the 2WW for IVF #3. Feeling like this is the one! - Melissa, IL
An eternal optimist, but infertility is really pushing my limits.
My husband and I have been trying for 2 years. I have blocked tubes and do not ovulate on my own. We moved to IVF early this year. Our first cycle resulted in no fertilized eggs. We are trying a second IVF cycle in June. Praying this is the time, please! - Kelly, MN
"It'll happen, you're still young." How I hate that cliche, I'm almost 29! I was young when I had an unplanned pregnancy at 19. Secondary infertility is terrible because no one takes it seriously, it's invisible.
Started TTC for baby #2 @ 26, 1 normal cycle, went w/o AF for 8 months while GP gave me runaround. Saw OB/GYN for 1 year, did Clomid Challenge, nothing. Referred to RE, Dx w/ PCOS & Hypothyroid, tried Femara, still TTC baby #2... - Shirley, Richmond, BC
Hello World, it's me- just another Dogmom chasing that elusive Stork!
I am 31 and I am infertile. At age 22 I was diagnosed with Stage 3 Endometriosis and 4 years later my ovaries stopped working. After 13 months of being off The Pill, Clomid, changing my diet, acupuncture and fertility teas, we are saving for insemination. - Stephanie, CA
Don't give up ...
We struggled with IF over 8 years. We tried so many things - many failed IUIs, failed IVF, miscarriage, surgery, acupuncture, etc. Our last IVF (last frozen embryo), the doctor said we had less than a 50% chance of success. We have a precious baby boy! -- Carren, SC
Why Can't I Get Pregnant????
I have 1 child which took a year to conceive. I have now been trying again for 15 cycles - and nothing. I know some people try a lot longer but it feels like it has been forever. I am on Clomid now but no luck so far. -- Michelle, VA
Infertile guy and infertile girl make a baby
I have PCOS with no ovulation and my husband had a vas deferens blockage. 6 rounds of meds, 2 surgeries, and an IUI later, we're finally pregnant. Infertility effects everyone, please don't keep it silent! - Candace, NC
It took more patience than I had
When we married, we married into the infertility journey. With endometriosis diagnosis AFTER everything happened, giving me closure and a reason why it took so long. My life now though has a purpose helping others once in my shoes. Myfertilityawareness.com - Amanda, FL
Will the pain of infertility ever end?
The sight of children now make me sad, which is sad in itself. - Bethy, NY
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